Who pays the funeral expenses?

The funeral costs are usually borne by the heirs. If they are unable to pay, close relatives are required. The social welfare office can help in cases of hardship.

The most important things at a glance

  • Heirs are generally responsible for funeral costs.
  • Dependents have a funeral obligation, but not always a payment obligation.
  • If heirs are unable to pay, subordinated relatives are liable.
  • An inheritance waiver does not automatically release you from the payment obligation.
  • The social welfare office covers costs when relatives are financially overwhelmed.
  • Insurance and pension contracts help to cover costs at an early stage.
  • Funeral expenses may be tax deductible under certain conditions.
  • Memovida provides assistance with organization, formalities and financial issues.

A death in the family is always an emotional challenge. In addition to coping with grief, relatives are often faced with the question of who has to pay for the resulting funeral costs. In this article, we explain the legal basis of the obligation to bear costs and show how Memovida can provide you with comprehensive support during this difficult time.

Statutory basis of the obligation to bear costs

According to legal regulations, heirs are generally required to pay the costs of the testator's funeral. This means:

  • Primary obligation to bear costs: The deceased's heirs are responsible for paying funeral expenses.
  • Burial obligation: Regardless of the succession, the next of kin are obliged to arrange for the burial. This includes organizing and carrying out the funeral.

It is important to stress that the funeral obligation does not automatically include the obligation to bear costs. For example, close relatives may be required to organise the funeral without having to pay the costs themselves, provided they are not heirs.

Order of payers

If the heirs are unable to pay the funeral costs, the obligation to bear the costs is transferred to other persons. The order is as follows:

  1. Spouse or registered partner: After the heirs, they are the next in duty.
  2. Children of the deceased: Adult children are subordinate.
  3. Parents of the deceased: Should there be no spouse or children or be able to pay.
  4. Siblings of the deceased: In the absence of the persons mentioned above.
  5. grandparents and grandchildren: Other relatives in ascending and descending lines.

This order may vary depending on the federal state, as funeral laws are a matter for the state. It is therefore advisable to check the specific regulations of the respective federal state.

Effects of hereditary rash

It happens that potential heirs turn down the inheritance, for example due to over-indebtedness of the estate. In such cases, the following applies:

  • Succession by individual heirs: The obligation to bear costs is transferred to the remaining heirs.
  • Inheritance by all heirs: The estate falls to the state. However, the state only covers the funeral costs within the framework of the existing estate. If this is not sufficient, the costs can be transferred to dependents subject to maintenance.

Support from the Social Welfare Office

If neither heirs nor dependent relatives are able to pay the funeral costs, it is possible to apply for support from the social welfare office. The prerequisites for this are:

  • Unreasonableness of the cost: If payment of funeral expenses is not financially reasonable for the obligated person.
  • Submitting an application: The application for reimbursement of funeral expenses must be submitted promptly to the responsible social welfare office.

The social welfare office reviews the application and, if necessary, covers the necessary costs for a simple but dignified funeral.

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Insurance solutions to cover funeral expenses

In order to relieve relatives financially, there are various options for Funeral provision. These include:

  • Funeral pension contract: With a pension contract, individual wishes for your own funeral can be defined and financing can be ensured. For this purpose, the money is deposited in an escrow account or secured by insurance.
  • term life insurance: In the event of death, this insurance pays out a fixed sum to beneficiaries. It is primarily used to financially secure survivors and can be used to cover funeral costs.
  • death benefit insurance: Insurance specifically designed for funeral costs, which takes effect immediately after conclusion of the contract or after a waiting period and covers the costs.
  • Statutory death benefit: Although this benefit has largely been abolished since 2004, certain groups of people are still entitled to a one-off payment, including victims of accidents at work or civil servants.
  • Savings account or special reserves: Anyone who sets aside money early for their own funeral can financially relieve their relatives. However, in certain cases, the social welfare office can access these reserves.

Tax deductibility of funeral expenses

Under certain circumstances, funeral expenses can be claimed for tax purposes as exceptional charges. This is possible if:

  • The costs exceed the value of the estate: In this case, the excess costs can be stated in the tax return.
  • Reasonable own burden: It is checked whether the costs exceed the taxpayer's reasonable personal burden.

It is advisable to consult a tax advisor to clarify the individual options and requirements.

How Memovida helps you

In times of grief, we would like to Memovida Be by your side and support you in all matters relating to the funeral. Our services include:

  • Comprehensive advice: We will explain your rights and obligations and help you find the best solution for you.
  • Organization of burial: From choosing the coffin or urn to arranging the funeral service and burial — we take care of the complete planning and implementation.
  • Assistance with formalities: We help you apply for death certificates, deregister with authorities and communicate with insurance companies.
  • Financial advice: Together, we will check what costs you will incur and what options exist to cover or reduce costs.

Our goal is to relieve you of as much of the burden as possible during this difficult time so that you can concentrate on what is important: saying goodbye to your loved one.

The question of who bears the costs of a funeral is clearly regulated by law, but can be complex in individual cases. It is therefore advisable to obtain information early on and seek professional support if necessary. Memovida stands by your side as a trustworthy partner and empathetically accompanies you through every step of the farewell process.

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Which relatives must pay for a funeral?

The heirs are primarily required to pay, followed by close relatives in legal order.

When do you not have to pay funeral expenses?

If you do not inherit or are financially inefficient, it may be possible for the social welfare office to cover the costs.

Who pays for the funeral if there is no money?

If heirs and relatives are unable to pay, the social welfare office covers the costs under certain conditions.

When do children have to pay for their parents' funeral?

If they are heirs or are required to do so under legal maintenance obligations.

Who pays for the funeral if the inheritance is rejected?

If all heirs decline, the obligation may be transferred to dependants subject to maintenance or ultimately to the social welfare office.

What happens if you can't pay for your own funeral?

Without provision, the heirs or relatives bear the costs, otherwise the social welfare office will help in cases of need.

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